In our social life, couples may sometimes reach a point where continuing their relationship becomes impossible, leading to divorce — which, though permissible, is the most disliked of the lawful actions in the sight of God. While Islamic law allows divorce when necessary, it has undeniable negative effects, both on the couple and their children.
When a couple separates, the woman often faces psychological and social pressures, especially if she is not financially independent. She may struggle to support herself or her children. As for the man, although he may appear to be in a stronger position, divorce also affects him emotionally and financially, particularly when children and ongoing obligations are involved.
Children are the most affected. They lose their sense of security, suffer emotional distress, and feel torn between their parents. This can impact their academic performance and social behavior.
From a legal and religious perspective, divorce is permissible when continuing the marriage is no longer viable. Islam prescribes it as a last resort after all avenues for reconciliation have been exhausted. The UAE Personal Status Law No. (41) of 2024 regulates cases of divorce and its conditions, emphasizing the importance of attempting reconciliation first, and ensuring the protection of the rights of both parties — especially the rights of women and children.
Divorce entails religious and legal responsibilities, including the waiting period (`iddah)` financial support (nafaqa), housing for the custodial mother, and children’s rights such as maintenance, custody, and visitation. These rights are clearly defined in the law to ensure fairness and prioritize the well-being of the children.
In summary, while divorce is a legitimate solution, it comes with psychological, social, and economic consequences. This makes it essential to approach the decision with caution and seek reconciliation through all possible means in order to preserve family unity and social stability.
As part of the efforts of the Federal Judiciary Council – Judicial Inspection Department, we present this assessment form designed to evaluate how well the husband or wife understands the consequences of divorce — especially in cases where children are involved. This initiative aims to help reduce divorce rates, promote family reconciliation, and raise legal and social awareness among family members through interactive and advisory tools that respect privacy and provide appropriate support for each case.